Some cycads look climbable by pretty much anything in the right size range; conifers with branches down to ground level (still plenty of those) are climbable by pretty much anything in the right size range, they're botanical stairs.
I don't think so, but to whack someone, you don't need these extras...
No, you don't, but if we had an growth series that showed the specialized tail parts developing before sexual maturity that would be a good clue that these were primarily defensive, rather than primarily for mate competition.