>> There are plenty of examples of small predators picking onlarge...mice on albatross, armadillos on rhea, black-backed jackal on ostrich, monitor lizards on Nile crocs.
These are all at most a single order of magnitude typical difference. (Maybe two in the case of the monitors and the crocs.)
It makes parent/nest predator interaction practical.
What you're proposing is that the ~10 kg and ~100 kg nest predators were defended against by the ~20 tonne parents, defending the nest. How?